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The Mystery called Sex

Infobase quote of the day:

“Before the child ever gets to school it will have received crucial, almost irrevocable sex education and will have been taught by the parents, who are not aware of what they are doing.”—Mary Calderone


This article is not a tract, meant to preach to you. It is a review of facts –raw facts. After all we have for too long tossed this coin from one side only. Well, what you do hereafter with the apparent facts determines how you fare in all things.

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Myth about sex

Many have defined the sexual urge as a biological, natural, ‘reflex action’; a systemic hunger which naturally and ‘helplessly’ comes the most upon one’s puberty, adolescence and early adulthood. Against this background, many therefore conclude it is impossible to live without having sex at will, whenever.

 

True, sex and sexual feelings are part of the human nature. But it is equally a delicate phenomenon – in fact the most, as it is tied to spiritual issues we can’t immediately fathom.

Let us consider that grand saying: “the spiritual rules over the physical.” Fine.

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Put that aside. Now we shall place facts side by side, as regards the potential benefits and risks of illicit sex, i.e. when approached the wrong way and/or at the wrong time.

 

Throughout the history of man, sex has been the single word which its issues have remained a big controversy: a blessing and a bane to many, at different polarities.  Blessing… unto those who heartily resolve to abide by its principles; whilst the ignorant and unrestrained approach to which has made many to limp and waddle with perpetual sore toes.

 

Other sexual weird words

Besides fornication and adultery, we come across eerie terms as: bestiality, homosexuality, lesbianism, masturbation, oral sex, phone sex, vibrator sex, and the many more depraved, grandiose sexual fantasies as are being engineered from the realm of the fallen-away.

 

However, the shallow information –nay, the one-sided approach upon which sex is sold to young minds and the general public, all are deliberate guises to entrap mankind. We shall here find out.

Full understanding of the sex mystery

True, at puberty and adolescence, the sexual urge seems ‘outrageous’ and somewhat choking. The males might wake each early morning with ‘self-inspired’ penile erections. The females develop increased body temperatures and some heightened skin sensitivity and irritability.

 

This is the stage you tell your siblings in their teens to be conscious of touch, even a prolonged hug, as it heightens these phenomena: the body too soon may tend to take over, as the heart instantly forgets all the truth it has ever known!

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However, full understanding of the sex mystery, mainly as regards its spiritual implications, will deaden the thoughts of giving the urge some carnal attention. And that’s the word here: conscious ATTENTION!

 

No one just grabs the fried chicken displayed in the showcase of the nearby restaurant simply because he/ she is hungry. No. You control your appetite, until the day you can lawfully have it. Phil Collins says, ‘That’s the way it is.” The fact that a sudden death comes upon the seemingly overcharged passion, i.e. should someone important just barge in, all tells us IT CAN BE CONTROLLED. It flames when you give it attention!

 

The ‘full understanding of the spiritual implications of sex’ is attached outright to the essence of receiving the Christ, and having Him live in you.

 

Wait.

It is not compulsory to make Jesus your Christ and Lord. You religious beliefs may not agree with that. Besides, I sincerely stated ab initio that this isn’t a ‘tract’.

Nevertheless, considering the fact that the sex matter is too strong a battle to be fought with

sheer resistance and will power, it is only wise to seek a safe, sure, supernatural shield and support.

 

Safe and effective bridge across the turbulent torrent of the sex phenomenon

From a testimonial perspective, the only safe and effective bridge across the turbulent torrent of the sex phenomenon is to have God’s Holy Spirit take over one’s soul, spirit and body. That is the one remedy that has never failed any, such as had embraced it resolutely.

How?

Surely, you have heard that wise, ancient saying: ‘security isn’t distance from danger, but nearness to God’. At least we all believe in the supreme God. But the issue of the in-dwelling Holy Spirit can only come to be, when one yields to the Christ, the sole doorway between man and God.

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Sex is a spirit. No flesh could fight a spirit. It will take a spirit to fight a spirit. That’s a fact. But that is not the topic here, just a stark report of some testimony… by those who successfully and safely waded through the sex torrent.

It doesn’t quite make sense to you yet, right?

Well, I had thought and wondered as much, just like you, through many years. But the issue is: Many continue to attest to that one and only remedy. They look safer, healthier and happier. They couldn’t be wrong, I had said aloud!

 

Why did God create all the strong sexual urges in human?

As a matter of fact, you too had asked, “but why did God create all the strong sexual urges in us, if exploring it now becomes a sin.” I too have asked. I am human too. But I see many more questions of life – philosophically worrisome questions! Consider fire, for instance. Used the right way and in the right proportion, it cooks our meals and brightens our vision and provides us with warmth. Used in the wrong way and proportion, it irretrievably destroys and burns down lives and property!

 

Yet we do not ask, ‘why did God create fire?’ We learn to manage fire. And that is much like what we are here grappling with: learning to understand sex as a phenomenon, so to willfully contend with its urges.

 

They say you don’t win a war with hired soldiers, but with soldiers who know why they are fighting. No other life phenomenon has had a one-sided portrayal as the sex phenomenon.

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The movies and the music videos and your peers have not helped the matter, either. You are just caught in a choking world of uncertainty and a seeming helplessness… all because you have not been made to see the many untold truth about sex: when engaged at the wrong time and in the negative ways.

 

Consider this analogy:

Under normal circumstances, over-feeding is neither good for the health, nor does it make one comfortable. On the other hand, certain food items could kill, if eaten the wrong way! Cassava is a staple food here, for instance, but if the tuber is eaten raw, it could kill in minutes!

 

That is a graphic application to embarking on the natural course of sex at the wrong time or in the wrong way. It surely has its spiritual and physical consequences! This applies to both the push to break the cord of sex before time, as well as sex addiction, on the other hand. No wise one tests the depth of the flowing river with his/her two legs. It snatches such away in its mad torrent.

 

Sex demands more caution: don’t even test its ‘river-depth’ with one leg; you may never stop if you start. Meanwhile, no feather ever looks the same after its exposure to the ‘alluring’ tongue of fire of the candle. Sexual addiction is neither good for the physical health, nor for the spiritual state, but runs down the person involved, making such look a lot older and leaner than his/her age!

 

Celibacy (resolved abstinence from sex) gives one an ageless ‘every-year-young’ outlook! Celibacy makes one a spiritual bullet-proof, in our wicked world where evil altars are diabolically destroying lives and destinies at will.

 

One step into understanding sex and its spiritual and physical implications is invariably, one major leap into living the primordial God-nature: secure, safe and spiritually indestructible! It is as simple as said.

 

As truly as sex applies to the human nature, it is not just a physical phenomenon. The movies and music videos that taunt us with sex never tell us who caught a venereal disease. Staphylococcus Aureus is still presently responsible for the many infertility cases in marriages.

 

The movies and music videos don’t tell you who contracted AIDS outright. They don’t tell you who got pregnant, and forced herself into one unhappy, unprepared marriage. The riddance of a pregnancy, as a choice, creates yet another platform of iniquity: murder! Most of those who had fallen victims of diseases or pregnancy attested to using condoms!

 

Murphy’s Law, one may say: “if anything has to go wrong, it will, and that, at the most embarrassing moments” Condoms can’t stop whom the Devil is out to bring shame upon! Condoms can’t hold back the spiritual deflation! Yes. The seductive ‘entertainment’ don’t tell us the spiritual price of illicit sex, as regards destiny puncture and deflation.

 

A lot of spiritual issues revolving around our destiny are tied to sex. Only marriage legalizes sex, where it is strictly an affair between couples. The Sex factor is the single phenomenon that is responsible for the decay of the moral fabric of the present day, as to compare with the moral sanity that held sway in the days of our progenitors!

Why?

They didn’t see all we have today deliberately allowed to ‘cook’ in the prime media… all in the name of entertainment. KEEP YOUR EYE, KEEP YOUR LIFE. Ask David in Psalm 119 vs.37.

 

The most to be feared about sex is its spiritual implications: IT IS A SIN THAT SEPARATES ONE FROM THE COVER OF GOD’S HOLY SPIRIT: it is a sin that destroys destinies. It is the one sin that opens the doors for the enemy to have his wicked way against anyone involved. It is the sin against both God and oneself!

 

Sexual urges can be tamed by fusing the mind with the inherent dangers thereof, as well as the glory of doing God’s will and command. See Matthew 6:33.

 

The thought of the risk and what one stands to lose, as well as the benefits of celibacy, all would surely discipline and in fact kill the urges of sex as they come. Only God’s Holy Spirit can create the platform for this deliberation and choice for abstinence. It goes beyond a verbal proclamation of “no more erotic films and videos and magazines and the likes”.

 

The sole arch-enemy of man and God is an expert in manipulating unguarded minds! It is possible to do away with all the physical materials that flame up sexual urges, whilst the mind is yet painting vivid, erotic imaginations!

Your mind is a spiritual state. Only the presence of a higher spirit in you can effectively bridge this worrisome, primordial phenomenon: sex.

 

Have you wondered why higher occult men are warned to abstain from sex –even with their

wives –when they have a critical assignment at hand!? Satan knows more about the sex mystery, but wickedly and freely projects it as snaring bait upon mankind –you and me! There is no ‘incorporeal factor’ here. This is telling it like it is!

 

You will do yourself a lot of good by staying away from the many ‘agencies’ and platforms that have been employed by the fallen-away, to fan the flames of illicit sex. These include romance magazines and novels, secular music videos, erotic movies (in fact, there are hardly any such classifications, as nearly all secular movies today must have a sex scene! That is Satan’s present day wicked tool and project. It is purposely done, to tie up mankind within his foremost want: entertainment!)

 

It matters what you hear, what you watch, and what you read. It matters who your friends are. It matters to avoid the rotten video clips you share in cell phones. It matters the sites you visit on the internet, as well as the pop-ups (as you browse) which you surrender your curiosity unto. Be wise. Flee from death.

 

Most of those pornographic ladies are wicked water-spirits programmed to appear in our realm to enslave millions of careless souls. It takes sheer attention to their acts to sell out to them, as they register pictures that may take so long to erase from one’s memory!

That is a channel to take over such person’s subconscious. We have to be raw and factual here, as this is one potent tool working perfectly for Satan!

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The fact that many confess to have released ejaculations within a few minutes of catching the sight of the acts of these ‘water demons-turned-into-human-damsels’ of pornography, all tell us they are not ordinary!

Many more victims do start to have dreams of swimming in water or doing strange things in their dreams that baffle them when they wake.

The Devil is wicked. Do not give him a foothold.

 

Meanwhile, your semen/ova is your spiritual essence, the embodiment of your destiny. Now we understand why they set these traps: they want to cage the destinies of the ignorant.

The moment you release your semen/ova on the wrong platform, something great and glorious is spiritually exchanged in your life!

Most ill fortunes and inexplicable failures against all expectations come from this mode of placing the semen/ova upon evil altars. Imagine what happens when one deliberately gives away his/ her sperm/ova to be deposited upon evil altars through sex! You don’t really know that person you know by name!

There is more to life!

Now this surely isn’t your bid. But it requires more than verbal statements of disassociation. It requires a conscious resolve to obey God’s command. It requires a COVENANT.

 

Sadly, the hue and cry over sex in the media and everywhere is satanically designed to drown these gory facts away from our consciousness. God himself lamented, “My people perish for lack of knowledge!” (Hosea 4 vs. 6)

Against secular/medical beliefs that nocturnal emissions are natural escape-routes of blossoming sperm/ova, you are hereby advised to embark on a counter attack with fasting and fervent warfare prayers each morning you wake with nocturnal emissions, as these host of darkness come at night to force it out on whomever they want to truncate his/her destiny!

 

Watch and pray.

Satan has great fury against all flesh. Higher occult practices are employed against mankind, against the ignorant.

 

Misconception about sex

Many young people had been talked down into losing their virginity via certain fallacious theories. Some are told that the pimples on their face, and even the catarrh they have are excess sperm (males) or ova (females).

This is a satanic lie!

There is no link between the hair-root glands in the skin and the reproductive system. There is neither `any link between the nasal cavity and the reproductive organs. Pimples are natural signs of puberty, and which will disappear when one reaches the mid-twenties.

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Catarrh is a mucous membrane which develops either out of allergy, or inhalation of dust, or inhalation of flu from the sneezing of the affected. In rare cases, when the brain has had so much to process (like a studious student preparing extensively for exams) the brain shades off some mucous membrane via the nose, in its bid to brace up the memory cells.

 

Now you and I know better!

Let the young people find something prospective to do with their prime time. Enough of the deceptive, empty jeering by the fallen-away!

Many have led celibate lives to preserve their spirit man and destiny, because they considered the consequences of committing oneself into illicit sex; and mostly because it is GOD’S COMMAND! God cannot ask us to do what is humanly impossible. Whatever God asks us to do is definitely for our good here in this life, and in the world to come.

Illicit sex is like your choice dish which you’d hardly enjoy red hot from the pot over the big

fire-place. ‘Wait’ is the word. At the appointed time, you will not struggle over the now cool dish that is rightfully yours.

Put your energy now on securing your career. Next shall come your glorious marriage to that person with whom you make the most of all that life has to offer.

 

Remember, no short cut ever worked ‘consequence free’. Same applies to that which is done against the course of nature; how much more when it turns to be God’s very order and command!

Remember, the obedient eats the good fruit of the land.

Remember, that many are doing it (and yet seem OK), shouldn’t trouble you; as the butcher must always strive to lushly feed the goat he’ll soon slaughter to pieces in a question of time! Stand for the old truth you’ve known. You are never in this alone.

God always has remnants. Won’t it be glorious if you remain one of them? It doesn’t matter the mistakes of yesterday. It matters what you NOW start doing with all you have come to know!

Remember, you will have to be alive and disease-free to make the most of the rest of your entire life.

Remember, there is but one YOU on this planet. Resolve to guard YOURSELF in wisdom and prudence.

 

Remember, by strength shall no man prevail.

May you find divine grace and peace to STAND strong.

 

Written by

Francis Duru II

CEO, Octavian Communications

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